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• HOW TO Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

  February 01, 2012

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  1. Regular Communication. With the likes of Skype and G-Chat we have finally reached theJetson era where you can actually talk to someone and see them — for free! If you are in a LDR, you must frequently take advantage of this, but it should not feel like a chore. It must be natural, with a yearning to hear from your beloved and share your experiences that occurred during the day. You can even have fun by sending random texts letting your beloved know just how special they are to you, or that you were thinking of them.

  2. Have an End Date for the LDR. An LDR should not be indefinite… This can and will be trouble eventually. It’s best to know that the current situation is not permanent and there should be a goal in mind as to when the torture of the LDR will end and the two of you will be reunited in the same area code.

  3. Plan Regular Visits. My suggestion is to not stay apart for more than 30 days. Each time you see each other, make sure you have already planned the next visit. It gives you both something to look forward to and prevents you from feeling that “this is the end” after each visit. More importantly, it keeps the relationship alive and keeps it from becoming an “imaginary relationship.”

  4. Trust is King. This is a hard one because trust (as I will discuss in a later blog) requires a vulnerable willingness and often takes time to develop. However, the truth of the matter is that you have no other option but to trust the person you’re with if you are going to choose to be in an LDR. Without this, an LDR is fruitless. To assist with this, communication is key. You must speak up when something is bothering you.

  5. Beware. If you have a propensity for cheating, stay away from LDRs. In fact, stay away from dating for awhile and really work on this characteristic of yourself. Cheating is not cool.

  6. Be Creative. Find ways to let your special someone know that they mean the world to you. Whether it is sending them a bouquet of flowers, a handwritten note or a care package, here’s your chance to make the weakness of distance a strength and capitalize on being romantic.
  
  *Original post on Huffington Post. 

• GIFT IDEAS: For Sugar Daddy & Sugar Baby

  December 20, 2011

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  With Christmas only a few days away, many people have yet to buy a gift for their special someone. For those who have yet to buy anything for their significant other, Brandon Wade, the Founder & CEO of SeekingArrangement.com, offers his list of gift ideas.

  SUGAR DADDY
  “A Sugar Daddy can be difficult to buy for, especially since he will insist that you spend little or no money at all,” says Brandon Wade, who was named Mr. Sugar Daddy by the Wall Street Journal. “Let’s face it, a Sugar Daddy, by nature, can buy anything he wants on his own. So if you are going to get him a present, it needs to be thoughtful and creative.”

  For the special Sugar Daddy, Mr. Wade offers the following gift ideas: Give him something personal, such as a properly framed photo of two lovers together; Pamper him with a special home cooked meal or special treat, complete with a massage; Design or customize something special for him, such as cuff links or a belt buckle.

  
  SUGAR BABY
  “A Sugar Baby is used to getting pampered throughout the year, so buying something for her for Christmas requires research,” says Mr. Wade. “All Sugar Babies are not created equal, so keep that in mind when you are shopping for yours. My suggestion is to keep your gift simple, and take into consideration what your Sugar Baby really likes.”

  For the Sugar Baby, Mr. Wade suggests staying away from “gift cards”. While “gift cards” from IHOP or Walmart are acceptable in the less sophisticated and less creative world of non-sugar relationships, few 5-star brands offer “gift cards” as a gifting option. So unless one plans on putting a four figure value into a Visa gift card, Mr. Wade suggests the following gift ideas.

  For the luxurious sugar baby, one cannot go wrong with a pair of classic Christian Louboutin pumps in her favorite color. For the jet setting Travel Sugar Baby, surprise her with a new Hermes Birkin for the airplane, and slip some tickets to Paris inside. For the studious College Sugar Baby, keep her studying in style with the number one gift this year: an iPad2, personalized with a stylish case, like Chanel or Michael Kors.

  According to Mr. Wade, the Holidays are about showing the people in one’s life just how much they mean, so his recommendation is to keep it simple and from the heart. He also recommends that if one is going to do something special, he or she should give it enough attention and effort to make it sincere.

  For more information about the Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby Holiday gift suggestions, please visit the Sugar Daddy Blog.

  
  Original post on www.PRWeb.com

  Brandon Wade is an online dating expert. He is the Founder of a number of highly success online dating websites, including SeekingArrangement.com – the premier sugar daddy and sugar baby dating service, SeekingMillionaire.com – the leading millionaire matchmaker online service, and WhatsYourPrice.com – the first and only online dating website where singles can buy and sell first date with each other. Mr. Wade holds a Bachelor’s degree and an MBA degree from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.